About ten years ago, before Jeff and I were even engaged, we bought a house together in Jacksonville. We still own that house actually, but have been renting it out since we moved away five years ago. At the time, I was 22 and it felt incredibly exciting to be buying a house at that age, but also completely nerve-wracking at the same time. Because neither one of us had gone through it before or had any idea what the process of buying a home was like – getting approved for a home loan, locking in interest rates, a down payment, yada, yada.
Luckily, my mom had previously been a real estate agent (she lived in Michigan at the time though) and also knew the drill from buying houses for herself in the past – which was really helpful. But if we hadn’t had my mom to lean on with questions, I’m not sure what we would have done.
I imagine that’s how MANY first time home buyers feel too, which is why SunTrust Mortgage created a guide to home buying to make it easy: Your Guide to Home Buying. The guide goes over the home buying process from A to Z to help buyers understand the ins and outs of the home buying process. Hallelujah! I read through the whole doc the other day to make sure it was easy to understand and seriously learned a few things that I didn’t even know. Definitely worth bookmarking if you’re thinking about buying in the future.
So what’s our (first) home buying story?
After we fully committed to the idea of buying a house together, we looked at a lot of houses in our target neighborhood (Riverside). Probably 20? And there were a few that had potential, but with our budget at the time, the vast majority of homes we saw needed a ton, and a do mean a TON, of work.
I wasn’t at all afraid of those types of houses because growing up my parents renovated every house we ever lived in. I was used to the idea of a fixer-upper to a certain extent and liked the idea of building up equity in a home too, if we could make improvements that increased the overall value. At the time, Jeff wasn’t quite as onboard with the idea of having to make improvements (that we didn’t necessarily know how to do ourselves), BUT he was open to it. Kind of.
After a month or two of looking, we found a small(ish) house in our favorite neighborhood, that we could actually afford. It needed some work, and it wasn’t very large (just over 1,000 square feet), but the necessary projects were fairly minimal and there was great natural light in every room plus a fenced in backyard and hardwood floors (which were all on our must-haves list). So, after a couple of days of nerve-wracking negotiations, a series of inspections, and a whole bunch of other stuff, we were finally homeowners, about 30 days later.
I remember the day we got the keys, we were both so excited. We walked though the empty house for the third time ever and made all these plans for what we wanted the house to be for us – renovations to the kitchen, painting all 1,000 square feet of the interior, eventually gutting the bathroom, etc, etc.
There was a lot of work to be done for sure (and some of it still hasn’t been completed), but it was ours and it felt like home. Actually, that was one of the first things I said when we walked through the house during the second viewing, before we made an offer. There were plenty of things about it that I didn’t love – the dark wood trim, the small / dated bathroom, the ugly light fixtures, cramped kitchen, etc, etc. But despite all of the cons, for whatever reason, that house just felt right for both of us.
When we moved in, we had the roof replaced (which we had worked into our deal for the house since the inspector didn’t have good things to say about it), painted every room, replaced the washer and dryer, fixed up the fireplace area (Jeff’s dad made us a new mantle and we had the tile around the fireplace floor replaced with something more neutral), and switched out all of the lights and ceiling fans.
About a year after that, we updated the kitchen – in the most budget-friendly way possible, I might add. I think we spent $2,500 on the new counters, subway tile backsplash, undermount sink, new faucet, etc. And looking at it now makes me want to scream a little because aside from the sink and backsplash, we would do things VERY differently now. Black granite and green walls?! What were we thinking?!
Whenever we decide to put it on the market again though, we plan to make some changes to the kitchen and bathroom. So, at least I’ll be able to redeem myself at some point. Fingers crossed.
Other than that, it was a really great first home for us, with so many memories. That was the house we were in when we got engaged (sitting on the couch after a little bit of an argument – we keep it romantic over here folks. ha!) and then married a year later, etc, etc.
It was, and will always be, our first house and while it’s far from the top pages of Pinterest, it was/is ours. And the before and after photos were taken nine or ten years ago at this point, so I feel like maybe I get a little bit of a pass on some of the design decisions and photo quality.
There’s this little restaurant in Atlanta (Folk Art) that has a really good strawberry salad that I always order. Especially during the summer months because it’s light but filling. I’m kind of picky about salads…unless they involve fried chicken. Then, I’m all in.
ANYWAY, when I was putting together meal ideas for a dinner party shoot (which I’ll be sharing next week), I realized that salad I always order would be super easy to recreate at home. I swapped out a few ingredients from the original, which typically has bacon, tomatoes, etc (I nixed all of those) and added in a few more of my faves (feta and candied pecans) and now I have a go-to summer salad that is beyond easy to make and is really, really delicious. Click through for the recipe.
Summer is in full swing and I’m all about that outdoor life at the moment – even with the insanely hot temperatures in Atlanta this week.
And to kickstart outdoor summer entertaining, I put together 5 easy DIY entertaining ideas in partnership with Duraflame. There’s flower power s’mores, my trick for turning literally anything into an ice chest, a colorful cocktail recipe, and more. Click through for all 5 summer entertaining ideas.
A while back, I started painting again (just for fun), as a way of getting out of my head and unwinding from my schedule. It’s been really nice to have something to zone out to lately, before I head home – almost like a transition stage between work life and home life, if that makes sense.
When I’m at work, I usually have a lot going on and the mood feels very go-go-go. So, it’s often hard for me to move from that work mentality, straight home into ‘relaxation mode’. Sometimes it feels like too big of a jump. You know?
Which is why painting in between the two has been a good way to make that transition feel more steady. At the end of the day, I’ll set myself up with a handful of supplies and a little bit of paint (or ink) and then I just zone out with a brush in my hand for 5, 15, sometimes 30 minutes. It’s nothing crazy, just a little bit of time at the end of each work day to get my mind out of it’s (often) frazzled state and into a better place.
Tomorrow, Jeff and I are heading to Harbour Island with our buds Ash and Jared (Sugar & Cloth) for a week-long vacation.
Before I head out though, I have some weekend DIYs to try. And I am full-blown obsessed with project #3 and 6! Click through for all 6 project ideas. And in case you’re curious… I’ll still be posting while I’m away. Follow along on IG for the pool floats and day drinking.
Aside from the kitchen stuff I’ve been playing around with lately, I’ve also been working on a more permanent solution for the studio seating area. I’ve been working on it off and on for a while now, but never quite landed on a solution that felt like it would stick.
I think I finally have it together now though (yay) and wanted to share the before and after, in partnership with a site that I am v obsessed with right now – Everything But The House (EBTH).